Posts in relationships
How to get over heartbreak

I was recently asked: “how do you get over a really heart-breaking situation and come out the other side?"

Here are my extensive thoughts, and I hope that these are helpful.

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When Mother's Day is difficult...

Thinking of those for whom this day is difficult for ANY reason.

Ours had due dates but never birthdays.

We never met any of them. The first one was the only one we shortlisted names for - we didn't let ourselves hope for the others - I think the loss of such a joyful hope and expectation is one of the hardest parts…

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Dancing in the rain

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s learning to dance in the rain”.

WAIT! Before you share this/dismiss this as a cheesy platitude blog post…

Thing is…that’s all very well, and we all have VERY different ‘storms’.

I’ve been ‘dancing’ through my storms for nearly twenty years…

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A relationship saving sentence...

Do you want to know a relationship saving sentence - workplace relevant; romantic relationship relevant; friends and family relevant?

It is this:

"The story that I'm telling myself is..."

And you can say it to yourself AND/OR others to clear up troubling situations.

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